Real Talk on Mental Health from Our Houston Therapists

Insights, tools, and candid conversations about anxiety, trauma, depression, relationships, and more, written by the clinicians at Restoring Hope Counseling.

I am Worthy
Depression & Mood Morgan Draper, Graduate Student Intern Depression & Mood Morgan Draper, Graduate Student Intern

I am Worthy

"I am worthy" can feel like a lie on hard days. But self-worth isn't something you achieve — it's something you return to. Here's how.

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Am I Burned Out?
Desiree Castenada Desiree Castenada

Am I Burned Out?

Life can move at a fast pace and you may feel no matter how hard you try, there is always something left on the to-do list. Burnout has become a silent plague running rampant among the lives of countless people. But what exactly is burnout, and how can you identify the signs to stop the cycle of exhaustion?

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5 Steps to Setting Boundaries
Desiree Castenada Desiree Castenada

5 Steps to Setting Boundaries

From your significant other to your mother, relationships are complicated. This is not to say that relationships aren’t worth it. Though, sometimes it may feel that way. Sometimes you may feel the urge to cut ties because you’re sick of feeling hurt or tired of fighting. At the end of the day, the choice is yours. However, it may be worth exploring the concept of boundaries before burning any bridges

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Dialectical Thinking: Embrace Opposing Thoughts
Desiree Castenada Desiree Castenada

Dialectical Thinking: Embrace Opposing Thoughts

Our bodies biologically exist to be most efficient for survival. Our brains create schema- or mental frameworks based on our lived experience- to most efficiently process new things and fuel our thoughts and actions. If you’ve been fired in the past over a small mistake, your brain may create anxiety around every mistake at your next job. If you’ve been cheated on while a partner was distant, your brain may overanalyze your next partner’s presence in your relationship. Schemas are helpful when we need to survive, like when our brain shortcuts to avoid a dish that's fresh from the oven, but life is not always as simple as that.

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Am I Being Gaslit? What Can I Do?
Desiree Castenada Desiree Castenada

Am I Being Gaslit? What Can I Do?

The word “gaslighting” is everywhere. In fact, it was Merriam-Webster’s Word of the Year in 2022. But depending on whom you talk to, or what you’ve seen on Twitter (X), Instagram, or TikTok, it can be hard to really understand exactly what it is and what it looks like.

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